Valentine Special – A Heartfelt Letter to My Future Wife

Dear wife,

It’s not so much a date or an obligation I’m
celebrating, but the deeper meaning and
contribution our relationship brings into my life.
I sometimes can’t believe my luck I’m waking up
next to you today. It’s always a dream come
true. I can feel the chords playing in my heart,
“isn’t she lovely, isn’t she wonderful….” What
more can I ask for, what a gift you are!
While the world around us has thrown the
meaning of true togetherness in the abyss. I
wonder how we found ours. I couldn’t have
created what we have. I believe it’s providence
way of making my life eventful despite the
challenges and adventures of being the man that
I have chosen to be.

I appreciate you above all things that you accept
me and identify with my purpose. I feel strong
because you have always believed in me. I often
wonder if I’ll be able to do most of the things I
do today save for the climate of patient
understanding, thoughtful affection, loving
encouragement and supportive enthusiasm you
create and sustain.

I often think you a better person than I am. I
often wonder how you put up with my quirks, my
boundless energy and drive. I also credit your
ability to lovingly bring me in tune with my true
essence.

I like that you challenge me to a better me. With
you, I just want to be the best man that I can be.
I often struggle but you make it worth the fight. I
won’t accept I have given you my best yet even
though you say it. There is a lot more you
deserve.

Sincerely, I have no felt need for the dishonest
spoil that has indelibly stained the moral fabric
of most men. You deeply satisfy me my woman.
You comfort and encourage me so much that my
heart safely trusts you. I’m secured with you. I
delight in you. You are a reward for my earthly
toil, God’s precious gift to me. All of my wealth
pales in comparison to the goodness with which
you enrich my life.

I fondly remember you said you were going to be
around for the long haul during my days of
obscurity. Those days seemed long but you
taught me to focus on the rewards and not my
circumstances.

So much faith you had, to thrust your ALL
against the tempest storms of my then unseen
realities. Indeed, you confirm to me that
believing is seeing. You helped me see that I can
walk on my waters and still my storms. Such
strong convictions you have about me that I
sometimes think you are crazy.

Again, I want to say thank you like I have always
done for that dashing young man and beautiful
young lady. I won’t forget to mention she is the
prettiest thing in the world. Every bit of her
strong spirit, kindness and beauty she got from
you.

Thank you for being such a model for her. Thank
you for being a mum he can look up to. I was
glad to hear my prince chat with his friend just
recently, how much he wants to be like daddy.
I’m sure he will figure out his path clearly when
he is much older. If he values my character, then
I’m fulfilled.

Darling, I sincerely think marriage is tough. But
the binding cord of our creator’s love in our
heart has proven stronger even when ours
sometimes becomes dry and slack. I’m assured
that he who began the good work in us will
surely bring it to completion.

Above all, I want to thank you for partnering with
God and for being instrumental in the making of
a world renowned speaker, author, business
consultant, peak performance coach and a
leader’s leader. All who I have been a blessing to
all over the world should thank GOD first and
then YOU.

Happy Valentine’s Day My Queen.

Lesson
You too can write a letter to your future. It’s
nice to let your imagination develop wings once
in a while. “Imagination is the preview of life’s
coming attractions”, said Albert Einstein. Create
your dream life, career or relationship (whether
you are in a relationship or not) in your mind and
document it.
Write as if everything were perfect, regardless of
your current circumstances. You can’t change
your current circumstances until you can imagine
something better. Writing is the first step in the
creation of dreams.
We can have, be or do whatever we permit our
minds to imagine. Please don’t settle for less
than you deserve. Don’t feel guilty for thinking
“I’m more than this” or “I deserve better than
this”.

Finally, be courageous and share your dreams
with the world, your friends or spouse.
Again, Happy Valentine’s day.

Abimbola Popoola
World Renowned Coder.
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